Learn this proven 3-part process that makes your child impermeable to narcissistic sabotage attempts AND empowers your child to THRIVE without “co-parenting” with your toxic ex
(even though everyone is saying that’s what you’re supposed to do).
For Motivated, Forward-Thinking Parents Determined to Protect Their Children from Narcissistic Sabotage
What greater legacy do you have than healthy successful children?
Did you know that leaving a toxic relationship does not break the cycle of narcissistic trauma for your kids?
Some people may tell you that symptoms in your kid like mood swings, anxiety, emotional outburts and even self-harm are “developmentally appropriate” or simply a “moody teenager”.
The truth is, these symptoms may also be expressions of a trauma response in your kid.
You see, co-parenting with a narcissist almost always results in trauma – both in you as a parent and in your kids.
And trauma stored in the body can lead to long term challenges including addiction, suicide, chronic illness, depression, painful relationship patterns, and even decreased life expectancy.
If your child is exposed to narcissistic sabotage attempts on a regular basis, you may feel hopeless that these long-term outcomes are inevitable.
The future may seem bleak, but what no one is telling you is that healing this trauma is THE KEY to changing long-term outcomes (not “co-parenting”, “parallel parenting”, “grey rock”, or even getting full custody).
The good news is that YOU have the ability to create positive outcomes for your child despite narcissitic trauma.
But it does take intentional action on your part as the healthy parent.
The key is rewiring both your system and that of your child’s so you are FREE to take back control of your life, act in the best interest of your child without fear of retaliation, and regain HOPE in your child’s future.
Learn this simple 3-part proven process in
The Way Out: Parenting with Autonomy Mentorship Program
This Program is for you if:
- You are attempting to co-parent (or even parallel parent) with a narcissistic ex
- You see your kid struggling but don’t know how to help them (and talking with the other parent is not an option)
- You live in fear of your child being alienated or taken away from you (even though you know you’re a good parent)
- You’re scared of the long-term damage that may be caused to your kid by the narcissistic parent
- You feel hopeless because no one believes you when you share that attempting to co-parent makes things worse
- You’re angry because nothing seems to be helping (despite all your research, trying different parenting strategies, and coordinating with therapists)
- You want an expert in your back pocket to support you in parenting a child through the challenges of having a narcissistic parent
- You want to be FREE from being triggered by your ex
- You want to have the energy to be truly present with your child
Veronika held space for me in a way no other healer has ever done before. I felt seen and heard, valued and respected. That alone was incredibly healing, but the practices I learned from her were even more powerful and are proving to have a lasting positive impact on my life. I'm so grateful for our time working together.
I have SPACE now – literally and figuratively. Space to build a heart-centered career, space to feel empowered and seen, space to forgive and heal myself, space to love myself more than I ever thought possible.
– Jeshanah (aka MissOldSoul)
AJ is an incredible resource for any parent navigating a difficult relationship with their co-parent. Her knowledge on typical and atypical childhood development, attachment, and trauma alongside her personal parenting journey make her an excellent support for those wanting to ensure their child(ren) have the best opportunities to grow and develop within the parent/child relationship and beyond.
– SM
The Way Out: Parenting with Autonomy Mentorship includes the 8-Week Intensive AND the 10-month Experiential.
The Way Out 8-Week Intensive
- Proven techniques that protect your child from long term damage of having a narcissistic parent
- Practices that minimize triggers so you are FREE to have more time and space with your kid
- Science-backed methods to release painful emotions for both you and your kid
- Quantum principles that create the relationship you desire with your child regardless of the actions of the other parent
- How to get support from professionals (teachers, mediators, therapists, lawyers) even if they don’t believe your ex is narcissistic
- Effective actions to neutralize the narcissistic chaos and confidently make decisions without fear of retaliation
October 4th – November 29th
Wednesdays from 1:30 – 3:00 pm PT via Zoom
December 6th – BONUS Coaching Session
Live (zoom) participation is highly recommended as this program is interactive.
You get:
→ 8 modules (live trainings available via replay)
→ Downloadable materials (PDF) for each module
→ Guided audios for recommended practices
→ Lifetime access to all materials
The Way Out 10-month Experiential
The experiential will support you in:
- Being able to finally parent without FEAR of retaliation
- Knowing how to positively influence your child’s future despite narcissistic sabotage attempts
- Protecting your child from potential long-term damage from narcissistic trauma
- Having a positive relationship with your kid, regardless of alienation attempts
- Effortlessly implementing strategies from the 8-week intensive so you are not abandoned in your parenting
- Getting relief from constant ruminations and triggers
- Experiencing clarity and confidence in communicating with your kid’s other parent
- Being fully present with your child in the way you’ve always wanted and being FREE from guilt of not being able to co-parent.
- Getting guidance from experts who GET IT and understand the challenges you’re experiencing
Why an Experiential, isn’t the Intensive enough?
During the 8-week Intensive, you will learn proven techniques so you and your child will be FREE from narcissistic trauma and regain HOPE in your child’s future.
But, having all the ingredients to a recipe is one thing, creating the beautiful masterpiece you envision is quite another.
Imagine you’re trying to bake a cake You collect all the right ingredients and painstakingly followed the recipe TO THE “T”.
Yet, when it comes out of the oven, you end up with nothing but a sticky mess?
The truth is, when you apply something for the first time, having an expert standing beside you can make all the difference in the outcome of a beautiful cake or a sticky puddle of goop.
The Way Out 8-week intensive is similar. You will have collected the ingredients and the recipe, but upon implementation you may still end up with a sticky mess that takes twice as long to clean up!
The truth is, we are all creatures of habit.
When you are being faced by unforeseen curveballs from the narcissistic parent, (which let’s face it come often!) you are likely thrown into a trauma response (like fear, anxiety, anger, or “deer in headlights”).
In this space of fight-or-flight, your brain does not have the capacity to think through and implement newly learned tools and approaches!
It’s not your fault, and it’s not because you’re co-parenting “incorrectly”. It’s science.
When you’re in a trauma response, you are likely to freeze or resort to what feels easiest in the moment.
And that’s why the 10-month Experiential, can make all the difference!
Imagine having TWO experts in your back pocket when you get a curve balls like your ex not adhering to your boundaries, manipulating your children, or making you feel foolish in front of teachers, coaches, therapists, or judges.
It’s like having a world-class baker right beside you, ensuring your cake turns out as the beautiful masterpiece you envisioned!
So… would you rather end up with a beautiful masterpiece, or a sticky, half-baked mess??
The choice is yours.
November 14, 2023 – August 27, 2024
Tuesdays (three times a month) from 1:00 – 2:30 pm PT via Zoom
The Experiential begins right after the Intensive so you get immediate support in parenting with autonomy!
→ Three group coaching sessions a month with Veronika and AJ
(Get TWO experts for the price of one!)
→ Three BONUS workshops with AJ & Veronika
→ Quick-touch coaching in between sessions.
→ Replays to all sessions and workshops (Lifetime access)
Get personalized coaching in three group sessions each month:
- Monthly Session # 1 Level Up: Living Free From Triggers: Get coaching from Veronika to identify and release your subconscious Imprints that are keeping you stuck in the trigger and trauma loop so you are no longer trapped in fear and can finally be FREE from ruminations.
- Monthly Session # 2: Neutralize the Narcissistic Chaos: Bring your emails, text messages, and questions about navigating court, school, therapy and medical needs with your ex and get insights from AJ on how to EFFECTIVELY set boundaries and communicate with your ex in a way that actually works!
- Monthly Session # 3: Closing the Loop: Get insights from both AJ and Veronika on your latest struggle and walk away with clear guidance on how to put the pieces together so you empower your child to THRIVE
Gain valuable insight through group coaching
- Know you’re not alone in facing challenges of narcissistic trauma
- Hear coaching on a problem you have not yet encountered so you have a repertoire of knowledge in your back pocket and know what to do when it happens to you (because it probably will!)
- Receive individualized support for your challenges in real-time, from which others can benefit and add to their repertoire of knowledge
Three BONUS Workshops (approximately one every three months)
Get three workshops that will support you in taking your healing and support of your child to the next level. (Workshop topics may be modified to meet the needs of parents enrolled in the mentorship.)
- From Survival to Manifestation Workshop: Discover how to utilize rewiring yourself to move out of survival mode and into co-creating the life of which you’ve always dreamed.
- Overcoming Transgenerational Trauma Workshop: Learn how the culture and traditions of your family-of-origin may be causing you to pass on intergenerational trauma to your kid. Get practical steps to break this cycle so you and your kid are FREE to create the future of your CHOICE.
- Navigating a Broken System Workshop: Did you know the current system is unintentionally set up to favor the narcissistic parent? The more you use the system (courts, mediators, therapy), the more control the narcissistic parent gets. That’s why this workshop teaches you the crucial steps to showing up within the system in a way that puts the control back in YOUR hands.
Veronika Archer has the instincts of a shaman, healer, and sage. During our first conversation she quickly identified within me behaviors that would hinder my success – deeply rooted personal issues that I have buried since childhood. She provided me with a variety of tools so I can begin the healing process and helped lay the groundwork for a positive life.
– Dave Coleman
Veronika’s work is warm, filled with heart, integrated, embodied, empathetic, compassionate, asks questions (rather than assuming my reality), trustworthy, and respectful.
It’s also highly intuitive. She allows guidances to flow through her in ways that are incredibly helpful – in energy practices and in breaking down and reframing through discussion and use of various tools.
She’s an incredibly valuable resource, especially for (but not limited to) moving past the effects of covert narcissistic abuse.
It’s also supportive for moving forward into an understanding that paves the way to more peace, meaning, and purpose.
It’s conducive to expanding awareness of one’s own existence and experience in a paradigm shift of cosmic proportions.
And, it’s grounded in science, evidence, and what’s shown up across cultures for millennia. I experience it as intuitively, immensely helpful. 🙏💕
– Aubri A
The Investment
The Way Out Mentorship Program (Intensive + Experiential)
Pay in Full
$9300
- Get everything in the 8-Week Intensive
- Get everything in the 10-Month Experiential
Bonus ($1,500 value, yours FREE):
- 3 Private One-hour coaching sessions with AJ or Veronika
- 1 Reprinting Session with Veronika
- Available to use anytime during the mentorship program
Total value: $18,600
Yours for 50% off
4 Quarterly Installments
$2325/installment
- Get everything in the 8-Week Intensive
- Get everything in the 10-Month Experiential
Total value: $18,600
Yours for 50% off
12 Monthly Installments
$775/mo
- Get everything in the 8-Week Intensive
- Get everything in the 10-Month Experiential
Total value: $18,600
Yours for 50% off
Questions?
Mentorship Program FAQs:
I want in but this is not in my budget…
Whew, I get it! I remember when I made the decision to work one-on-one with a healing practitioner and I had NOT budgeted for it. It was SCARY!
The truth is, though the investment was large for me, I saved so much on medical bills and supplements not to mention the time and energy I GAINED.
What is narcissistic sabotage costing you?
If you’ve been in a legal battle with your ex, the cost is tens of thousands … without any results.
In a recent parental alienation attempt, I spent $1,650 in one month on legal bills and therapists. With NO result!
Then I implemented the process that you’re learning in The Way Out. And got a beautiful relationship with my son in just three weeks.
The investment in this program is at least half the cost of monthly legal bills AND you protect your child AND get back your autonomy!
I know it’s scary, but ask yourself – what is your child’s future worth?
I’m really interested but Tuesday at 1:00 PT doesn’t work for me.
Send us an email at info@veronikaarcher.com and let us know what times work better for you. If we have enough interest, we will open another cohort!
Why can’t I just do the Intensive?
We know what it takes to truly break the cycle of narcissistic trauma and support is KEY. That’s why you get a significant discount ($1,400 savings) when you register for the FULL mentorship (Intensive + Experiential).
We understand you may want to learn the process first before committing to the 10-month Experiential, so you DO have the option of registering just for the Intensive.
Register for just the intensive here: https://veronikaarcher.com/thewayoutprogram/checkout-intensive
Now is not a great time. When will you offer this next?
This mentorship will be offered annually. So your next opportunity will be in September 2024 – one year away.
We know what it’s like to be a busy parent, and navigating the chaos of narcissistic sabotage makes things even harder.
Imagine a life free of triggers, free of reacting to curveballs thrown by your ex. How much time will that give you?
My clients have shared they spend an average of 2 hours a day in triggers and ruminations.
That’s 14 hours a week (or 56 hours a month) lost due to triggers and ruminations!
At just 4 hours a month, you can gain back the time lost to triggers and navigating the chaos.
I’m not sure my ex is narcissistic
This program is intended to support people who are experiencing the following from their ex:
- controlling and/or manipulative behavior towards you and/or your children;
- unwillingness to take responsibility for their own actions,
- regularly putting the blame on you when things don’t go the way they want,
- their actions seem to indicate that hurting you is more important to them than acting in the best interest of your child(ren)
- you get stuck in endless circular conversations when you try to discuss things with them and never get to a resolution
If this sounds like you, then this program will support you and your kids even if you think your ex is not narcissistic OR if you believe they have a dual diagnoses (something in addition to or other than NPD).
What if the narcissistic parent is the mother?
This program is for all parents with a narcissistic ex regardless of your gender or the gender of the toxic parent.
My kids are grown, will this work for me?
This program is intended for parents of minors (ages 0 – 18 years old). The rewiring process also works if you have young adult children; however, strategies will be different if your kids are no longer minors.
I’m still not sure if this program is right for me.
Book a call with Veronika to get input on your specific situation. You will get honest input as to whether the program is the right fit for you. We only want you to join if it’s the right fit for YOU!
Book a call here: https://calendly.com/veronika-archer/the-way-out-clarity-call
My question isn’t answered here.
Send us an email at info@veronikaarcher.com and we’ll answer your question!
You can also book a call to chat directly with Veronika (not a sales person): https://calendly.com/veronika-archer/the-way-out-clarity-call
Veronika has a strong sense of calmness and stability about her as she shares her knowledge & wisdom. She is also a very good listener & takes the time & care to understand what I & others share so that she can advise us well. When I have been in programs that Veronika has run I know that she has the good of my & other’s well-being as one of her important intentions, which naturally puts one at ease.
– Maryanne
I appreciate your righteous anger and your intolerance of BS. I can’t remember exactly which session it was in, but I remember you getting angry at something that just wasn’t right and calling it out. That is something that stuck with me. Your honesty and sincerity is what we need more of in the world.
– Erik
I just wanted to say Thank You. I feel like I’ve made more progress in 4 months with you than I did in 18 months of talk therapy.
– Arpana
I found yesterdays session very useful. I also liked the coach had the same experience so she can understand us more than a usual professional. I look forward to joining other sessions.
– Group Coaching Client
Thank you for everything it was amazing today I heard a lot of things that are gonna help me with my children.
– Group Coaching Client
Thank you so much for your time and effort for us. Your advice was definitely helpful. I am excited for our next sessions. 😊
– Group Coaching Client
Who’s Leading the Mentorship?
Veronika is the mom to three young adult boys (23, 19, 18) and AJ is the mom to a young girl. We’ve combined our experience parenting with a narcissistic ex with our professional experience in narcissistic trauma recovery and child development to develop this unique one-of-a-kind process that makes narcissistic sabotage irrelevant by rewiring your system and that of your child.
Veronika Archer
B.S. Biology, 20 years consulting biologist, Certified Quantum Healer
Veronika Archer is an intuitive transformation coach supporting high achievers who’ve experienced narcissistic trauma or emotional abuse to dissolve emotional blocks keeping them stuck so they are free to create their legacy.
Veronika’s transformation path began after leaving a marriage of 16 years where she had experienced gaslighting and narcissistic trauma which had left her with chronic illness and riddled with pain from migraines and fibromyalgia. There was no help to be found in the medical community and, relying on her own background in biology and lifetime of mindfulness practices, Veronika started developing her own process. The chronic depression that had followed her from the age of 12 left and her fibromyalgia and migraines disappeared.
After experiencing consistent joy and wellness, Veronika felt obligated to support others in discovering a life of peace and joy. She left her career of 20 years as a consulting biologist and is now the owner of Veronika Archer International where she uses a combination of intuitive guidance, quantum healing, and transformative coaching to guide high achievers to break free from the long-term effects of narcissistic trauma.
Veronika’s transformation path began after leaving a marriage of 16 years where she had experienced gaslighting and narcissistic trauma which had left her with chronic illness and riddled with pain from migraines and fibromyalgia. There was no help to be found in the medical community and, relying on her own background in biology and lifetime of mindfulness practices, Veronika started developing her own process. The chronic depression that had followed her from the age of 12 left and her fibromyalgia and migraines disappeared.
After experiencing consistent joy and wellness, Veronika felt obligated to support others in discovering a life of peace and joy. She left her career of 20 years as a consulting biologist and is now the owner of Veronika Archer International where she uses a combination of intuitive guidance, quantum healing, and transformative coaching to guide high achievers to break free from the long-term effects of narcissistic trauma.
Veronika Archer
B.S. Biology, 20 years consulting biologist, Certified Quantum Healer
AJ Gajjar
B.A. Developmental Psychology, B.A. International relations, 15+ years Child Development Specialist
AJ Gajjar is a trauma-informed child development specialist supporting motivated parents whose children are experiencing narcissistic abuse to protect their children from the harmful effects of narcissistic sabotage.
AJ became a parenting consultant after the abrupt end of her marriage of 8 years. Seeing her daughter struggle through the new split family dynamic, AJ began to realize that she was dealing with much more than the typical challenges of divorce. After discovering that her daughter was being parented in a maladaptive way, AJ was determined to support her daughter to thrive regardless of the effects of the other parent.
AJ is now the owner of R3ISE and is committed to sharing her unique parenting approach so parents can empower their children to become impermeable to narcissistic influence. She also works with the therapeutic, legal and child protection communities to increase education and awareness on the negative impacts of narcissistic abuse and maladaptive parenting. AJ believes that all children deserve to experience success in all they choose to do, and is dedicated to supporting parents in creating a legacy free from narcissistic trauma.
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